I'm one of the lucky ones, I'm perfectly happy with my avatar B)
@Darque, you're basically right, except it seems to get a bit personal (and in this case repetitive) in the comments on some peoples avatars. If an avatar offends someone, point it out once. Then try PM the person or a mod. I could stare a pretty girls all day long, even if they don't have tail but different people might have different values.
@Alexia, nice new avatar B)