Im not an immigration lawyer either but in 1984 when she entered this country I would assume the clock started on becoming a citizen through whatever the process is. Twenty years later she gets married. So, I suppose she dodged the process for long enough to get married and thus fall under green card status but that doesnt make it right. And split up families? How about she follow the rules in the first place? Youve got no problem with her gaming the system for twenty years but you do have a problem with her being deported when they finally catch up to her? Our laws exist to keep illegal immigrants out and if they want to skirt them I guess they have to be willing to face the music when the government catches up to them. Whats the saying, dont do the crime if you cant do the time.
PS: I could care less that shes homosexual.