I know there are a lot of people which are not affected by music, and i find it fascinating.
As far back as i can remember, music always had a profound effect on my life. Not listening to music is something i just cannot fanthom.
That said, perhaps popular music is just not for you, you should try something a little more on the 'serious' side (classical, jazz or this 'complex' death metal i keep hearing about)...
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Well, my family was hardly musical (although my maternal grandfather apparently could play the piano by ear ... he just never got a chance to because he was working two full-time jobs for his entire adult life).
the music master I had in my first boarding school (English Public School, I was nine) was a total ... err ... [insert rude wod for very poor teacher]. That didn't help.
I have music that has coincided with various stages of my life, and some tunes that are memorable for that reason, but I do not have music playing on a daily basis. Even when travelling in the car, I will listen to spoken news, current affairs and art / philosophy / analysis.
Pop music I find completely inane. Which is interesting, because my partner actually had a couple of top-20 hits ... "
Though I do enjoy Opera (although the German stuff is a bit cacophonous), especially Italian.
I did like Phantom of the Opera, too.