Yeah, all these stories make me glad I don't have kids. Every time I start coming around on the idea I hear stories that erase any happy feelings I had. Sad part is my wife is the same way, we like the idea of kids more than the reality of kids. Plus we are so comfortable in life now and seeing our friends with kids is somewhat... I don't want to say depressing but yeah, seems like a few happy moments surrounded by misery.
Maybe next year