QFT!
I used to be like a lot of guys. I didn't want kids, I wanted to stay single forever, enjoying my time drinking, sleeping, watching whatever movies I wanted and playing video games.
These feelings changed a bit after I met my wife but were still present in various degrees until the very second my daughter was born 6 months ago almost to the day.
Let's just say that having a child is like getting hit in the groin really hard by reality. This is a good thing.
How shallow my life was before my daughter. But the second she was born it's like I understood everything. All came into focus and I learned that SHE is what life is about and everything else is just filler.
I love you sweetheart!
+1
Im the youngest of three and both my siblings still live in Florida. Were close but we dont chit-chat all the time. We talk and catch up once a month or so. Both of my parents are long gone. My father when I was 7 and my mother when I was 17.
EDIT: Oh yeah, Im also married and on good terms with all the in-laws, of which there is a buttload. Interestingly, that was the biggest culture shock for me as I was used to not having a lot of "family" around.