Yeah, well, maybe children should be taken away for that - it's just another form of child abuse.
I dunno if you can really classify it like that, is it child abuse because you don't agree with it or that it might be detrimental to the child in the long run. In that case people could be just as likely to call a young man's parents child abusers for contributing to his effeminate nature. You wouldn't want to be taken aways from your parents for something like that, would you?