In most cases the other one initiated it.
Let's have a look......
Atton: Atton pretty much flirts with Exile as during his free time, even asking Bao-dur on what his "chances" are. And he's the perfect candidate for a darkside female Exile to turn into a loyal *****.
Disciple: That gimp....I mean guy you pick up in the sublevel seems to threaten Atton's ummm....claim. Never really payed much attention to Disciple myself though........
Bao-dur: Well, there's the whole species barrier, but that did'nt stop that one flash movie from being made. "
Mandalore: Revan has him whipped, so he's off-limits.
Mira: She assured the Exile that she would likely end up killing him if they hooked up power couplings. She also said she would have to lay the smackdown on a jealous Visas & Handmaiden to defend her territory....I mean the Exile. Draw your own conclusions.
Handmaiden: Oh I'm sure the fact that she insists on sparring in undergarments was only a coincidence.........
Visas Marr: "My life for yours." Need I say more?
Talia most definitely has a gym membership and has cortosis in her skin. She must've withstood at least 10 lightsaber strikes from my darkside exile Sith Assassin.........
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Well, you have a good point for some of these things.