That's kind of taking your fantatisism (for lack of a better word) to the extreme is it not?
I, personally, think of Revan as male, since that's what I played as and felt the story made more sense with Revan as male, since the Bastila romance was more indepth than the Carth one.
However, if there was some kind of official statement where they made a television series or movie and deemed Revan to be female, I wouldn't be bothered by it.