Uh, you can a bit of decorum without being a tyrant.
...which isn't my point either. Being "offended" is a smokescreen for controlling speech no matter how you spin it.
No its not that people don't understand, its your premise that is questionable
You basically making excuses or trying to justify offensive\rude\crude\derogatory comments
Well, you know, if you have real discussion there is always one side ''offended''. If not, what is point of discussion in first place?