They should probably knee you straight in the crotch for it if you don't get the idea very quickly. Because you're acting creepy and nobody wants to be around a creep.
I wouldn't mind if they kept to the source material a little. Jedi pursuing love isn't exactly a common theme, but when it does happen it's doesn't happen particularly quickly, it doesn't lead to make out/fade to black scenes, and most importantly it's a BAD IDEA. Well, bad idea for the galaxy at least.
I'm not being against romances. I'm being against immature relationships. The characters in the KOTORs literally seem to live just to serve at the player character's beg and whim with only minor objections. A real choice and consequence, relationship, and romance system would have at its core some measure of personality independence. It would be closer to Baldur's Gate where if you did something an NPC really didn't like he'd drop out of the group, take his close friends along, and try to f'ing kill you. The same goes for a girlfriend, in a mature individual it doesn't matter how in love you feel you are, once you start eating babies she's going to bleeding object, not ask you to toss her a leg.
This was actually one of my complaints about Attack of the Clones. Anakain slaughters women and children (sandpeople), but all Amidala says is "there there" and still marries the psychotic bugger at the end. But at least both movies showed how that kind of love weakened a Jedi and opened them up for the darkside, something the KOTOR games ignore. And when Amidala finds out he's slaughtering human children (xenofascist!), then she finally gains some sense.