Why, yes, I am.
Well, iti s not a sin for a husband to desire his wife is it not? Its not adultery, is it? Now if two gay men who are just as committed to each other and married (which some states and churches allowed) would that be considered a sin? Having gratuitous sex and lusting, hetero, homo, or otherwise, I agree are sinful, but two individuals dedicated to each other and committed I wouldn't consider their love as sinful regardless of gender.
I also disagree with this. God made us who we are and by denying our true selves we deny what God made us to be. Salvation does not lie in the denial of who and what we are, but embracing it in full.
The thing is I don't think that God tells us how to act and how to be through scripture. Scripture in the Bible may have been inspired by God but written by the hand of man from a patriarchal archaic society without any clue about the way the modern world is like. The only true understanding that we can have is through our own experiences and how God expresses him/herself in the natural world around us. Scripture is not the end of spirituality but a book of history. We need to embrace our true selves through embracing our needs and desires fully.
God made them who they are, just as He/She made you the way you are and myself. Denying oneself of who he or she is IS denying God.
You have and I o disagree with you, but mostly on what a sin is and how you limit yourself only to the Bible, which is a pretty unreliable text.