It's Bastila Shan and Yuthura Ban not Bastilla or Yuthara....
I haven't desided the presonality of my next PC yet, so I can't anwser for Him or Her.
If you mean ME(as oppesed to my PC) then I belive there are laws which prevent us from marrying ficticious characters. :D
And just what criteria should we use for this selection anyways...
after all, they all have the same bodytype.
But I personally prefer women like Bastila (Personality not bodytype).