Hmm... I think you just betrayed everyone on this thread. Shame on you, Kor. Shame on you.
How so, Kiro? I needed advice from someone with no knowledge of my situation. Honestly, I don't really have anyone to talk to about this. My friends all told me to leave her ages ago, so no point in complaining to them. It's not fair for my parents to have to deal with their 36 year old sons emotional issues. And spending most of my free time with her and her kids has pretty much isolated me from my friends. An anonymous advice column really seemed like the way to go.
If I offended you, or any other board member by actually trying to get some help, I'm sorry. Although I'm not sure I should be.
If its any consolation, Kiro, she read it today splattered across the back page of the first section of our local paper. She is deservedly pissed at me and probably won't talk to me again. I don't blame her, but I don't feel the need to explain it to her since she won't listen anyway. I can admit I'm not in a great place right now, and I did what I thought I needed to do to feel better. Even though I did, my intentions were not to hurt her.