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Interesting, so you don't think his comment about...lets say the Mexican community are offensive? http://www.latinpost.com/articles/66043/20150714/rupert-murdoch-slams-donald-trumps-remarks-about-mexican-immigrants.htm http://www.latinospost.com/articles/65207/20150626/latin-celebrities-responds-to-donald-trumps-hateful-comments-about-mexican-immigrants.htm

Do you not think it is possible for a presidential candidate to have a honest debate without offending people ?

"Sins" eh? These people are really starting to be indistinguishable from old school right wing religious nut jubs. I suppose the point is the game is about oversexualization of characters and scenes...its similar to an accusation of objectification of women characters in a game Not sure how valid it is because I haven't played the game but it could be true ?

I don't understand your point and I think it looks interesting? Are you saying Destructoid needs to be more sympathetic towards Thompson health? And if so why should they ?

Wow...what a busy weekend. I was partying on Thursday and Friday with a girl I met. Then today I was suppose to fly to the coast for my Dads birthday but I was delayed at the parking area and missed the flight by 3 minutes....so I have changed my flight for 2 weeks time. Obviously I was disappointed because most of family would have been there but I will see them in 2 weeks Then my mother phoned to lecture me about not getting to airports in time and how I " need to sort my life out " and " how my dad doesn't have many birthdays left " (and they not even married ) This of course annoyed me as the reality is I am an independent, grown man who has a good job in the private sector, his own house, pays all his bills and has numerous SJ activities I am involved in...I don't think my mother needs to tell me about proper decorum She means well but in her world birthdays are REALLY significant ...well for me the actual day is not as important as time I could spend with my dad in two weeks Also there is this new video exposing "systemic racism in a certain South African university ". Its an emotional video but the conclusion now people are drawing is there is a " culture of prevalent racism in all South African universities and all White Afrikaans males are unrepentant racists" Obviously I can't accept these types of uninformed generalizations so I have been busy on various radio stations disputing this I would like to see if anyone can give me an opinion on this video and tell me what they think?

So who do you call the Nazi? Decisions, decisions ....people don't appreciate all the stress you under Volo

Really? I have admitted that my initial assessment of GG was wrong. I never understood the outrage from white, male gamers because I didn't understand how white, male gamers could think they were being victimized because in my world white, heterosexual males dominate most aspects of society But for the majority of people on this thread you guys aren't bigots, you are not sexist and you are not opposed to meaningful transformation in the gaming industry What really irks you is how this entire sector of gaming, white male gamers, has suddenly become " sexist, misogynists who lack a progressive view " ...this accusation has become the standard mantra of anti-GG and in many cases its unfair and doesn't represent the reality I realize that now, the reality being in its quest to achieve true equality anti-GG has in fact alienated an important demographic and created this environment where people have become intransigent on both sides. Anita and others mean well but I fail to see how attacking white, male gamers is actually helpful in the long term So maybe you guys think GG is about "ethics " amongst gaming journalists but for me that is just a distraction and for many people this is just a way to articulate there frustration ...but lets be honest isn't the real frustration this perceived invective and attack on white gamers from certain quarters? And I get that, who wants to be told they are bigots when in fact they definitely aren't So words like " harassment" actually are very relevant to the core debate we see as much of the protest from white, male gamers is a manifestation of understandable frustration at being told " you guys are the problem because you are opposed to transformation " I hope this makes sense

Guys this is a very important point, I hope everyone understands and recognizes its value And what value is that point, really ? Other than the usual ersatz wit. Still rather surprised that given how awful this harassment is, no one's killed themselves yet. Has been useful to elevate people's standing, so to speak, though. I have a better idea. Why deal with any of those things when we can fight windmills instead. None of them are fighting harassment and never were. And I don't think they care about it, the "fight against harassment" is just a tool. Well I hope you understand how utterly that's missing the point. Guys I am not going to get into another debate on this thread about why " harassment " is relevant and a real societal problem. I am too focused on RL issues of harassment which in almost cases come from a foundation of bigotry,ignorance and discrimination...and I don't think its necessary to raise why that is relevant I just will say this, for anyone who thinks " harassment " is a red herring when it comes to the Internet or for example how it pertains to GG or anti-GG seems to be missing a fundamental point The problem with the original Leigh Alexander article is actually a question of harassment ...you guys just don't see it. White, male gamers were harassed and vilified due to a certain narrative. So its ironic that some of you guys seem to dismiss this term when in fact you are victims of it Food for thought guys, food for thought

Guys this is a very important point, I hope everyone understands and recognizes its value

Sorry...its just some people really do believe that economic prophecies made many years ago are real. And I live in a country where that becomes a real part of the narrative...and its frustrating because in South Africa our economy is being impacted by the Chinese slowdown and there own economic issues and we should be discussing the real economic changes we need to make in South Africa and not relying on the " wisdom" of soothsayers

I reject conspiracy theorists, especially when the reasons for market fluctuation is clearly documented and understood Its unhelpful to say things like " there is a cycle of economic pressure on global markets which is known to people who follow Judean Calendars " The global economy is not defined and impacted by mysticism and superstition or the Illuminati, we cannot always predict market sentiment or how governments choose to manage there economies. So for example what is happening in China at the moment was not 100 % predicted but possible but it also isn't something that was inevitable For me its simple, you cannot prevent the free market from being the best arbitrator of determining the health of a countries economy. The Chinese still think government intervention in there stock market is a viable option to ensure sustainability. They seem to be now realizing this will not work in the long term

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2015-08-25/china-said-to-halt-stock-market-support-amid-intervention-debate-idr2sxku Here is a updated link to get an understanding of what the Chinese have been doing around intervention in there Stock Market

The issue with the Chinese economy is not there manipulation of there currency Firstly emerging markets and most countries that rely on exporting commodities, like gold and iron, have become reliant on the Chinese economy growing every year by 7-8 % and the fact the Chinese will always buy these commodities. So the concern from many economists has always been " can the Chinese sustain this growth" As I mentioned previously in this thread over the last 2-3 months the Chinese have lost trillions of dollars in there stock market from people selling shares, the Chinese solution to this was artificial stimulation through buying there own shares and forcing there own investment banks to buy billions of dollars of shares. This is not the way many economists will tell you is the way to restore confidence to a stock market http://freemarketcafe.com/2015/07/china-when-4-trillion-goes-to-stock-market-heaven/ http://forums.redflagdeals.com/chinese-stock-market-loses-3-trillion-month-1767503/ http://economiccollapsenews.com/2015/07/10/chinese-stock-market-loses-3-25-trillion-in-a-month-is-china-on-the-verge-of-an-economic-collapse/ So this panic of selling shares has now become contagious and we are now seeing mass selling of shares in other stock markets Some economists will tell you this is a natural correction of inflated stock prices and we mustn't panic What is a reality is emerging markets that are very dependent on the Chinese buying there resources will be negatively impacted ....this is bad. This bad for countries like South Africa But the European and the USA stock markets will stabilize, we are already seeing this. However the overall confidence in the Chinese being able to guarantee 8 % growth is now a real question and its unlikely they will be able to continue to do this going forward so we need to accept the economic consequences of this

Yes just to add something, she wasn't a stripper. And you right ...what she did say about her weight was basically how she use to be overweight and clearly this was something she had struggled with Of course she only mentioned that after I said what I said so I had no idea

Probably, JHB is a big place but there are only certain places that play a type of music that we both like So yes I should see her again sometime

Yeah it was an epic fail ....no denying it I'm not talking about normal lying which is generally done in a malicious way I mean a white lie which is done so you dont hurt someone feelings ...now people will tell you " there is NO such thing as white lie...a lie is a lie " But thats patently not true and most reasonable people tell white lies all the time. For example lets take your wife who comes from Latvia ( Or Lithuania or Estonia I forget ) and lets say the majority of her family still live there and for years she has been telling you about her grandfather and how she misses him, she tells you stories about growing up under the USSR and how her grandfather was a very important part of her life ....and even though you have never met him you can see how important he is to her Anyway one day as a surprise you tell her " lets fly your grandfather over to the USA " ...your wife is ecstatic and her grandfather comes over for week or so and your wife has the most amazing time with him but also is very proud to show him her new life and how you have provided for her and how she is part of the USA But during this time you actually found the grandfather to be aloof and contemptuous towards you for an unknown or not obvious reason...something your wife doesn't see. Now when he goes back home and your wife is obviously sad and says to you " did you enjoy meeting him " would you really be honest and tell her the truth knowing it will hurt her ..especially considering the fact you probably wont have to see him again? You probably wouldn't see the need to and you would tell her a white lie... " yes he is very nice" You see its a lie but done for a valid reason...hence a white lie. I tell them fairly regularly

Well she still is the primary choice of most Democrats so unless this changes and Sanders passes her she is ontrack to become the candidate ?

I see Biden is considering a surprise announcement to run for the presidency candidacy ...I sincerely hope he doesn't as this will weaken the Hilary Clinton support base Surly he must be aware he cannot win the candidacy but it will weaken Hilary Clinton and increase someones chances like Sanders

Me too, exactly, ever since that time in '99 when the stars descended and I controlled the orbit of the moon, the sun, and the galaxy at large. Now I feel like Captain America without the super soldier serum and I can't explain the loss or how it happened or why. So I just play games and drink craft beer. Really, really good craft beer. Guys thanks for all the input, on further reflection if this happens again I guess I just need to use common sense. Especially if I really like the lady, so next time if it happens I will tell a white lie and say something like " weight makes no difference". Because then this whole type of question wouldn't have become so contentious. Also obviously once you get into a relationship weight is less of an issue I decided to go out last night after chatting on these forums, I met up with some friends and had a really good time and it was nice distraction

Thanks for commenting Zora, I was hoping someone would comment

[ M what do you think? Isn't attraction important .? Of course, arguably it underlies everything, which is why success rests in the control of our preferences. If you're not attracted to a certain body type, etiquette says keep it to yourself, particularly if someone is testing your depth of empathy. "You'll see your problems multiply if you continually decide to faithfully pursue the policy of truth. Hide what you have to hide, and tell what you have to tell." Thanks, you guys are seeing my point yet what Hurlshot said still bothers me....

Couldn't you just sell your product on your own website or something? I have to be honest this discussion you guys have been having is confusing? Has it got anything to do with Scandinavia ? This conversation is just about private property in general. Okay ....I was wondering why KP was asking all these strange questions about Scandinavia...but he wasn't so it makes sense now Because we were talking about the Scandinavian countries

Couldn't you just sell your product on your own website or something? I have to be honest this discussion you guys have been having is confusing? Has it got anything to do with Scandinavia ?

I have to be honest I am glad you guys see my point but I still feel I failed on some level where it matters So her asking me that question was a bit unfair but it was almost like she wanted to confirm if I was telling the truth about what I said earlier. So it is type of thing I would do but not the first night. I'm eccentric but not in a way people always know, I have been in love but that was about 5 years ago. I do meet girls I like and date them but never love because something always feels like its missing. So some of you guys are married and I respect that but I cannot date someone properly unless it really feels right ..so typically I would date a girl for few weeks and then end it in a way where we all friends. My one friend teases me that I always find a fault as Im scared of commitment but thats not what I'm scared of, I'm scared of realizing something is missing and then having to explain why its not working but I dont have a valid reason that most women understand Anyway I also have a really big social circle of friends and I had no issue with what I have been doing because I assumed " what is love if you can't feel it " ...its not like I would pretend But Bronwyn changed all that ...it was completely by surprise but it felt so nice to be really comfortable with someone and be content..I had forgotten that feeling because I always feel other feelings that are nice but not this one obviously Anyway thanks for the input

I'm going to go a little against the grain here(?): how is paying heed to whom you are and are not attracted to being shallow? If you are not attracted to someone, you are not attracted to someone - it doesn't matter what traits that are specifically turning you away, whether it be gender/sex, physical features, how they manage their appearance, what they believe (yes, even stuff like this can play into your perception of who you're attracted to), etc. - you are simply not attracted to them. I also doubt it's a wise idea to pursue those whom you are not attracted to - that would surely result in some difficulties in any potentially meaningful relationship for as long as it remains true (it may not remain true, since what we appreciate can change over time, especially with more exposure - particularly if it's in a consistently positive light - but it's impossible to determine that from the outset, and most people would simply rather be with someone where both parties feel like they are compatible with one another to begin with). On the other hand, the girl also asked, "would you have still felt a connection to me[...]?". This one I am less sure of, since it depends on exactly what is meant by "feeling a connection": if you have trouble making friends and/or just in general getting along with someone because of such factors, I think that may be more shallow (it really kind of depends: some people find it impossible to associate with people with opposite political beliefs, for example...whereas I don't have such problems except for very extreme cases. But I wouldn't classify those who do as being shallow: should I? Are physical appearances really that much more meaningful than political beliefs when it comes to personal relationships with others? That's not a rhetorical question: I'm genuinely unsure of what/how you classify such factors as "meaningful".) But genuine attraction? You can't really control for that. Barti I have noticed you haven't been talking to me and I thought you would come around as most people do I think I know where I offended you and also kgambit pointed it out, at the time I didn't really think you were being serious but I understand I was condescending. I do like you and I know you a young guy who always adds value so I need to be more respectful. In RL I have several young friends but they look at me as a mentor and I never joke or tease them like I did with you so I apologize You see I have many debates in RL so sometimes on these forums I don't pay as much attention as I should and I probably do come across as condescending. And sometimes some people just dont talk to me and I don't know why so I can't address it but I am sure I know with you it was the America thread right ? Anyway sorry about that and I hope you will continue to chat to me