E.g. summary was something among the lines of 'you should have informed the husband about that'.
What Shepard does?
Grabs the guy by the collar and threatens him among the line of 'go and inform the family'.
NICE!
Alpha Protocol had the same problem.
So you don't like small surprises then? Either way, maybe it's not exactly ideal for roleplaying, but what the heck I was always more the story guy anyway.