People say that people don't have control over how things effect them. I say bullsaht because of personal experience. I am no different than anyone else. A human is a human is a human. Sure, people have different experiences, but everyone reacts the same way to stimuli. Everyone has the choice of of letting their emotions get out of control or they can choose to control themselves.
Everyone has the choice. It is the basis of free will. If you have no free will, you are nothing better than an animal. Are you saying you are nothing better than a dog, number man?