I mentioned this before, and I'm mentioning it again, because it's that important. Please, oh please make these onscreen prompts optional. I don't want to know that this or that character likes/hates me by so-and-so number of points, because I want to experience them as fully developed characters, not a mini-metagame within the game.
I ****ing hate this sort of **** and it really turned me off playing KOTOR2. I think it was Josh Sawyer who was one of the big proponents of this idea and I just absolutely disagree with him on the need for it.
This stuff shouldn't be transparent. It destroys immersion, it destroys replayability, it encourages horrible metagaming.
Edit: Fine, prompts. Disable it by default.