My advice to you would be either to become more open about your straight edge views (maybe influencing them into finding a balance) or try to compromise a bit with them. After all relationships are give and take. Won't be easy, but keep your fingers crossed.
Be. the. mayonaise.
Just so that people will get the reference, you should have linked it
http://personaleffectiveness.blogspot.com/...nnaise-jar.html
I wish thats what I meant, its much more profound, but I was referring to: