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I understand it may seem upsetting to realize you are insecure about women but this can be fixed and addressed. I am not saying you hate women and you not a misogynist. And you not like Trump I know this because despite all your attempts to undermine any posts I make highlighting sexism you care about your niece for example. Remember when I realized she worked in the sex industry you did defend her....in fact she not have worked there if I recall or you did say she has subsequently left ? But lets be honest, in all the years I have raised any issue around sexism or abuse you have never ever even attempted to support me....not once. Now most members dont necessarily support me but you also constantly say things like " Clinton laughs at rape victims". Its frequent and very inaccurate and does not appear rationale But end of the day you can change this view if you want, you just need to resolve the core issue you have with women. This will be a personal journey, I don't expect you to share it unless you want to ?

I'm not sure if you are on my " gloating " list, we seem to have debates in an open way. I'm not sure how much more I can continue to try to improve your views....its gets draining at times because you make progress but then you make illogical posts Also as I said earlier I firmly believe you have an irrational insecurity about women and gender equality. And until such time as you acknowledge this its makes it difficult to help you see the right perspective

https://www.facebook.com/cnnmoney/videos/10154034240553067/ Guys this video made me feel much better about this election, it really puts things in perspective. Most of us have become bogged down with this election and at times we appear jaded, frustrated or melancholic But we tend to forget there are always a new generation who will be voting for the first time and this election is very exciting and significant for them. It made me realize there are people who just want to be part of this historic election because they care.....no falseness or innuendo... very comforting for the future of the US Also they raise issues in a candid and sincere way, how come we dont seem to be able to do that at times ? Now yes these girls are only 18 so lets not be captious, they still have good insights Watch the video, you can skip the singing in the beginning as I found it annoying but watch from 2 minutes....also they sing the US antham at the end, very emotional and real

I don't believe I've ever said a positive thing about Trump. Well this is the best answer you could have made because you must have been joking then when I asked you several months ago but you did say you supported Trump And it was a shock as at times you have deep views on SJ and I hate to think of anyone as a hypocrite....and considering your general view on equality in the world how could you seriously support Trump and not be a complete contradiction

You know the best part about a Trump win would be all the crow Bruce will have to eat. He's better chew it good! GD Okay we all adults here, I wont lie to you. As you know I am very frustrated by the lack of support for Hillary from this forum from the actual US members. I have tried to use logic, honesty, persuasion, reasonableness, patriotism, fear-mongering and its basically been ignored And I blame myself for not explaining the reality of why the US really doesnt need 4 years of Trump And I promise you this has nothing to do with me being " right ", this is about the next 4 years and what is the best political situation for the US so I mean well Anyway there are some forum members, not you, who I will definitely be gloating over if Hillary wins....so I have no issue with anyone doing the same to me if Trump wins But can you think of just one compelling reason why Trump deserves to be president ?

You can basically read this thread on autopilot. "According to pol some sources Clinton has admitted she'll be abolishing income tax and replacing it with racial serfdom". "We just need to go out and vote third party then our broken 2 party system might be able to fix itself by 2020" "x IS A SJW NAZI SCUM. IF YUO SUPPORT x YOU SUPPOPRT RAPE AND EVIL. PERIOD" "c'mon guys you can't really hold this horrible thing Clinton has done against her?? surely you no shes sorry and dont wont trump to winn right?? (◕ᴗ◕✿) "Bourgeois democracy is a sham we're all doomed". Etc. I'm sure I dont agree with this post but I'm not sure what you saying, please can you respond in simple English to these questions What " horrible thing " has Clinton done? Yes we dont want Trump to win, I know you support him but what is one reason you actually want Trump to win? What do you mean by "Bourgeois democracy ?

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If my intention was to post scandals around Trump I could literally post something critical about him every 2-3 hours, he is a much bigger target But unlike you Im not obsessed with Trump, he is simply an embarrassment to the USA and I want him to lose the election volo I have mentioned this numerous times to you before, its okay you will be fine. Women are your equal, not your automatic better....no need to feel insecure

No, this is just another example of the constant obsession you guys have with feeling the need to highlight any possible " issue" that gets directed at Clinton....surly you cant be this concerned with such trivial perspectives ? Relax bro, we're not going to steal your love for her. But guys seriously.....do you really think this constant scrutiny of her is rational or normal ? Please consider my question as constructive

My best friend who immigrated to Oz 18 months ago is back in SA for 1 month so we had an awesome reunion party today at a really festive restaurant ...loads of shooters, laughs and good food. It was great to see him and his wife again, I'll be seeing lots of them over the next 4 weeks

No, this is just another example of the constant obsession you guys have with feeling the need to highlight any possible " issue" that gets directed at Clinton....surly you cant be this concerned with such trivial perspectives ?

volo I dont hate men? Why would you think that...we just need to acknowledge some societal realities like there is rampant abuse of women and children in different levels of society and most of the times these crimes are committed by men. So lets not deny this ...abuse is a problem in society and the groups that are the greatest target of this are women and children

I am a very reasonable person and I firmly believe in a more fair and equitable society Hillary Clinton flaws and the negative views some people have of her pale in comparison to the numerous issues I have with Trump Trump is a disgrace and a hypocrite. He panders to a pointless dream of what " makes the USA great ", this dream will never be realized even if he becomes president. This dream of his involves bigotry and a negative narrative of what defines the USA I absolutely support Hilary for a number of reasons but one of the main ones is she says things " lets make the USA great together " . She is also honest about the current state of the USA, its really not that bad so I support a more positive and constructive view of the future that the Democrats espouse

This is why my biggest outrage with this election is the media corruption and why I'm quicker to condemn Clinton than Trump. Screwing with the media extends BEYOND the election cycle and ruins any sense of trust there was. It creates doubt and discourages people from trusting any news or even bothering with watching. Had I been that woman...? I would've purposefully saved my accusations til after the election if I wished to be taken seriously, for that exact reason. It has nothing to do with people doubting Trump is capable of such a thing and everything to do with people doubting the media even more. Now it's just sex scandal #7 that they doubt, but in the future it could be much more serious topics that are disputed. Guys I absolutely believe these types of accusations, there is real precedent and Trump has offended women on numerous occasions Because of the actual comments Trump has made I have taken a certain stance when any women accuses Trump "guilty until proven innocent " And at the same time you refuse to accept anything negative about Hillary Clinton as being true despite the fact there is a long history and tons of evidence that is not just "he said she said" Sorry Bruce, credibility = 0 GD !!! Thats rude, you know in the 18th century this comment would be considered an attack on my integrity. I would have been insulted and I would have demanded satisfaction ....we would have met for a duel tomorrow morning at 6 am!!

This is why my biggest outrage with this election is the media corruption and why I'm quicker to condemn Clinton than Trump. Screwing with the media extends BEYOND the election cycle and ruins any sense of trust there was. It creates doubt and discourages people from trusting any news or even bothering with watching. Had I been that woman...? I would've purposefully saved my accusations til after the election if I wished to be taken seriously, for that exact reason. It has nothing to do with people doubting Trump is capable of such a thing and everything to do with people doubting the media even more. Now it's just sex scandal #7 that they doubt, but in the future it could be much more serious topics that are disputed. Guys I absolutely believe these types of accusations, there is real precedent and Trump has offended women on numerous occasions Because of the actual comments Trump has made I have taken a certain stance when any women accuses Trump "guilty until proven innocent "

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-politics/wp/2016/10/22/trump-threatening-nearly-one-dozen-sexual-assault-accusers-vows-to-sue/ Guys I do appreciate the fact you trying to understand gender equality and not come across as unintentionally sexist or dismissive of sexual assault but these comments you made are exactly the comments you musn't make. Trust me on this one, lets just say we can all be glad there are no women on this forum as this would have indubitably irritated them One way to " confirm " if a post is sexist would be to ask " if I was a women how would I feel if someone asked me this post "

"I know what you really mean despite the fact that you claim to mean something completely different!" ("I shan't be fooled by your stalinist lies" remains unsaid but strongly implied.) I have no idea what volo is talking about ? volo are you talking to me?

Just had a few drinks and dinner at Hooters and tomorrow I'm taking Bronwynn for lunch so its been a good weekend

reading comprehension lvl: volo I so glad someone else noticed this, sometimes I think its just me. At times volo responds in a way that doesnt have ANYTHING to do with what I'm asking him....do you think he is trolling me?

Okay I didnt realize you were saying you come from white privilege? Are you sure this is accurate....if you dont mind what is the reason you say you come from white privilege ?

Not a bad change, US election discussion has been SSDD here for a while. Also we are discussing how people are feeling due to the election....surly this be relevant but Meshugger seems not to even notice this as he lacks empathy?

I think you're grievously misunderstanding the people you seem to be arguing against here. No alum, this is different and relevant. I have a hard time treating the stance of anybody who seems to be incapable of grasping the concept of "it is possible to acknowledge that certain segments of society are benefiting from social structures that have their origin in deeply unsavory historical events without holding the very same people personally responsible for those events" as "different and relevant". Yes but to be fair this is more of an exploratory session to get some personal data, I know what you saying but in this case I dont want to judge anyone because then they wont be so keen to share Funny enough the words " white privilege " are really used to describe white people, its not unreasonable as white people didn't suffer from Apartheid. Did I mention this to you as these are exact words ...I have no problem admitting white privilege. My dads side of the family are bankers and I dont lie about that ...yes I was very fortunate growing up/ Volo there are many things you need to accept and face, I can help you accept these things? You need to do this for yourself....dont do it because you want to impress the forum? But you need to committed?

I think you're grievously misunderstanding the people you seem to be arguing against here. No alum, this is different and relevant. I know you are very good at assessing sophistry on these forums and normally you are right....but you also good at understanding much of someone like Meshuggers discombobulation when he makes some of his almost artistic comments I like debating Meshugger but sometimes I have no clue what he is talking about and frankly I have no interest in looking up words that are part of the whole Internet vernacular that you guys use I ask people to make a point in plain English Anyway this unhappiness in the USA is not what you think, its real but not very well explained or understood. I dont mean Trump supporters....they have become like this cult of ignorant and unquestioning zealots....they dont care what Trump says or how he comes across....they dont care. Its a very bizarre and invidious reality to accept if you live in the USA. Yes they about 35 % of the white population but thats a large number Anyway I mean other non-Trump supporters

Empathy is a thing, though. The world you live in is the result of history. If you can't see that the American Indians got an incredibly raw deal, and they are still struggling because of it, that's not good. Doesn't mean you need to hang your head about it all day long, but it also seems pretty bad to just write it off as ancient history. In SA though, they seem to burn history instead: http://www.economist.com/news/middle-east-and-africa/21693278-students-are-throwing-colonial-art-pyre-whiteness-burning This article made me laugh, its true but it needs some context and its hard to explain to people living outside SA So the reality is simple, the majority of black students who damage property and destroyed so called paintings and made comments like " symbols of the coloniser" dont have an understanding of history or what is really significant. Most of them sadly wont make it past first year These " down with whiteness " comments are just rhetoric, you dont take it seriously because its irrelvat to the reality of what matters in any country where we need to build the economy Trust me, I share much more entertaining things than that ...check this out populist movement https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_First_Land_First Read there manifesto

This is a good response and it ties into my broader point but just to clarify some things you mentioned, please go into more detail in the following What do you think are the main problems people want to fix Who is raising these problems In what way do you feel the outcome results in people feeling they victims