I dislike RTS. You have to pull me in with a good story and setting. The Warhammer 4k games I enjoy just because the Space Marines are my buddies. They're so cute! Oh, and the little dudes with the jetpack + chainsaw are my favorites.
I also enjoyed Age Of Legends.
Both of those games combined an overland map of controlled, neutral, and enemy territories. Your territories provided you with resources instead of you plunking down a miner/woodcutter whatever. More RTS should do that.
But, I still prefer games like Alpha Centurai, Civilization VI, or Galactic Civ. To me, strategy should not be 80% warfare.