Yes because it's organic, your actions are important not simply a case of come back and be spoonfed some more story when you gain a level. That people cant handle the idea of failiure (losing influence)/not being able to see everything because it isnt bloody obvious isnt a flaw in the system as much as a flaw in them.
On the contrary the backstories filled in many of the questions. KOTOR II also has inter-related NPCs where something you ask one NPC will open up a new dialogue path with another. It also makes sense that you would become friendly with those characters who most closely share your views (or have to break their will, or pretend you share them, perhaps challenging your own in the process, and certainly sullying yourself).