What the Sam Hell peed in your coffee this morning?
I utterly disagree with nearly everything you've said, and I'm not in the market for a girlfriend, thanks.
Jade Empire's romances were not especially deep, Bastila's cute but her attitude sucks and she's an out and out snot. I don't find that at all appealing. She's an immature know it all - and she's shallow as heck.
Yes, her voice acting was well done.
Kudos to the actress.
And the romance between a male Revan and a female Bastila was cliched and not that interesting, imho.
Oh, look, I managed to state my opinion with out personal insults. You may want to look into how to do that. it's a useful skill. (and part of maturing as a human being.)