Exactly! We all have our own perceptions as to how the characters are in our minds...
(1)Guys, you have to remember that these games (and yes, even the main characters) do have a canon storyline.
(2)And to Beccaali, canon dictates that both Revan and Exile were both male. Sorry.
1. No. The storyline is EU canon. So it's irrelevant. EU as a whole is one mishmash of dead ends and illogicalities, not to mention being almost completely dismissable anyway when quality is being considered.
2. Canon doesn't dictate her/his character as anything. It's his/her decision what happened during the story and no canon crap is going to change that.
Now someone might question me why does any of this matter if Lucas does what they want. It doesn't, I just don't appreciate killjoys. Seriously, what authority do you have to go and tell her/his view of the story is bull? What a jerk.