Yes.
We do get to level up (are you still level 1?). There are indeed bad people in the real world. No, we don't have open season on them, though. Escapism alternate definition: anti-stress (where stress is defined as the result when one is prevented from acting out the urge to strangle someone who acting like a berk).
Training for 1337 ninja chimp judo. Or political scheming. Okay, or magic.
Okay. *0 Okay. Yes. Not that interesting, really, just a facsimile of RL. *1 Right-O. Scope definition understood, if not agreeable.
... And, in fact, most (all mythical) literature. *2 Yes. But what about anti-heroes? The life of Spartacus has indubitably been romanticised, but that's kinda irrelevant, isn't it? If not, maybe this is what you need to elucidate on.
Depends on the definition of the magic, e.g. "Divine domain" or "Death Magic", etc. Technology is alignment-neutral. A tool. Like an internal combustion engine: it can be used as to power an ambulance, or a tank. Unless a particular scenario defines a specific type of technology as evil like, say, harvesting live convicts' organs. Against their will. Or a rifle to hunt people rather than food. Irrelevant. Good writing uses whatever.
Addenda:
Dunno if, in clarifying your points, you have overly narrowed their scope. All the definitions are acceptable (if not agreeable), but there isn't a lot to debate given all the assumptions you have set out.
I still don't see any relevance between magic-tech and ethics. Unless you are defining one as inherently good or evil.
PS Writing style: ++ INFLUENCE GAINED ++