The question still remains, and it's not a case about it being a hill to die on. It's a question of that so many tombstones could not have taken that long to go through and vet for changes. It's a question of what were they doing that some slipped through? Or a case of miscommunication, what someone didn't get offended by, someone else did? It's not about this one joke, but what else slipped through the cracks, and why?
I simply think it's a fair question for someone who put their money into the game as a backer to ask.