While I dont know the timeline I always got the impression from your fresh wounds that you and she broke up fairly recently. Wasnt her getting hitched rather fast? And as a follow up question, dont you and the (now) husband work together? Also, how do you keep from hitting him with a chair?
Well, recently and recently. She broke up with me in January, told me about the other guy in March (when they got engaged) and now got married. Sure, it's pretty expedite, but she's a lawyer who has a pretty unromantic view towards marriage (mostly viewed it as a legal financial partnership). We weren't even together for that long, it was just the kind of stuff where you are finishing each other's sentenced during the first date. Never had quite something like that, but she knew this guy from before, and obviously it was easier to attempt again with somebody else than take a risk with me...
And, no, I don't know who the guy is, I think I heard his (given) name for the first time today, in fact, I don't know the first thing about him. So we most certainly don't work together - and if I ever met him, it probably wouldn't end well.
There's stuff I can't really share here in the interest of privacy, but let's just say that she keeps showing me that she cares. It makes it even more painful, tbh.