No, I'm not missing the point. If you're suggesting that we (these fine Obsidian board members) are typical angry gamer nerds that bully women and just generally make asses out of themselves, and that *we* are responsible for such behaviour, then you're dead wrong. I'm not part of this "culture". Anybody who seeks to be part of a certain culture is imo brain dead anyway.
Developers should just think independendly and make what they believe in, period.