*sigh* not this again...
Despite popular belief, BEING HOMOSEXUAL IS NOT A CHOICE!. Atleast, not a conscious choice. In fact, most gays grow up hating themselves for it and are forced to accept it as they get older.
Personally, I don't mind being attracted to men. It's fun and sets me apart from most of my friends. My main gripe is that it's a dead end in life. What are the chances that I would meet another man that I would be happy with? Let's not forget that I'm asexual (click sig for more info).
Basically any relationships with men that I might have are already doomed to failure, so I'm trying to take some responsibility now before it gets out of hand.