i guess you just don't know until it happens
i know i didn't know what to think at first
i actually thought about this a bit more
i haven't had any long term sexual relationships since, but at the moment i have a rather odd relationship going on with a friend of mine
i'm closer to her than any other person in my life currently, and i spend heaps of time with her, but we've both never really felt the need to make things more physical
it's been like this for about the past 3 months, and everyone seems to already think of us as a couple