i'm kinda worried
i have this friend you see, and she's been seeing this guy for about a year now. he's a bit younger than her, and can be a bit immature and foolish at times, but generally he's a pretty good dude
he's a bit of a metalhead, and she's more of a goth. she gets on fine with all the metalheads, but he really feels quite uncomfortable around the goths and doesn't like being around them
so sometimes when i go to partys and shows with the goths, she really wants to come, but doesn't want him to feel uncomfortable, so she wants to go with me instead. now i got no problems with that, but i don't know what he thinks about me taking his girlfriend out to parties without him
i don't really want him to feel like i'm gonna make a move on her or anything, coz it just wouldn't happen. i have a personal rule to never do that sorta thing to mates. what i'm worried about is her
she seems happy enough with him, but from time to time i get the feeling as if she'd prefer to be with me or something. now that may sound pretty vain, but look at the evidence
- once when she was drunk she told me quite blatantly that she thought i was hot and that if she wasn't with him she would've made a move on me by now
- last time i went round to her place for drinks she insisted we go out to the beach, and once there she kept clinging to me and holding my hand (it was fairly cold though)
- she's told me on a few different occasions that she has much more fun with me than him, and wishes he'd lighten up a bit and be more like me
she's a mate and she's quite cute, and heaps of fun to hang out with
i don't quite know how to approach the subject with her though