Plooby I totally agree with you! Even if it's silly (hey, being hooked on a NPC IS kinda weird but ... who cares) I agree that the Exile wouldn't just let him turn his back on her, she'd do something to get his attention, perhaps not jump him ( but who wouldn't if the option was given? ), but she'd certainly not just stand there doing nothing being the kind of determined person she is in the game.
Being one of the older women around here playing KOTOR (the oldest perhaps?) even I feel that the romancing options could have been much more fleshed out perhaps even different depending wether you're darkside or lightside. Flirting with Canderous could have been fun ( I mean imagine trying to get him to let go of that horrible armour girls! ) No explicit scenes had necessary, but just some hints of "love" had been fun to get either by dialogue or other means.
And btw I feel that if Bao-Dur would have been jumped in the first place, I actually think he could have defended himself if he didn't want to get jumped. (damn! )