So i contacted private division support on this, and they basically told me im outta luck on this save file, as there is no fix, very disappointing, i have to start a whole new game now because i feel like im missing out on a piece of content without her in my crew. i dont really feel like starting a new game so i guess it looks like im not playing this game as of right now, maybe when they patch it some more as i dont want to start a new save file and have some other quest bug out on me....