Everything else that I could have picked is wrong, so why should I bother making a character another gender when I'm wrong?
Getting to chose your character and your path makes the game more fun.
They're not saying you're wrong, it's for future Expanded Universe. If they have start having KotOR novels or something, they can't have one book say Revan was a woman, another say that he was a man, one say that he went back to the darkside, and so on and so on...cuz the fans are are gonna think 'What the heck is going on?!'
So just chill, things don't always go your way, doesn't mean you have to get mad. There's parts in other stories I don't like but I deal with it.
Besides, it's LA's game and they'll do what they want with it.