Turtles All The Way Down

I'm having something of a similar issue where I've finished Winds of Steel (and Built to Last) with the knights, and I can talk to Clyver about an invitation to the Animancy hearings and he agrees to sponsor me, but when I return to Lady Webb I only have a dialogue option of telling her that I've burned bridges with all 3 groups. At this point I've done no quests with house Doemenel, in fact I can't even remember if I've been inside their house, and the only quest I've done involving the Dozens was Rogue Knight.

For my personal Raedric's Hold crashing issue, it doesn't seem to make a difference whether or not I'm sneaking. It's been consistently happening when walking out of an interior room on the upper ramparts.