It's sad that the Jedi become so extreme as to rule out Loving someone as having any worth. But it happens a lot in a community that has seen so much of their blood shed as the Jedi have. They believe rules, and codes can save them, when in the very end, Love is a powerful emotion, that can cause people to do extraordinary things. Technically Jedi falling in love is not forbidden YET in the KOTOR timeframe. I believe it won't become a rule not to love until 1000 years before Phantom Menace. Love is, I guess, looked down upon for a Jedi at this point it time. It's sad really to forget about Being one with the force, and Making the Force something completely seperate from yourself. The Force Shouldn't be seperated from the one using it. The user should enjoy life with the force as opposed to it being JUST a burden.