Oy vey...
Well, at least you've the decency to wince. Anyway, these things do tend to happen if we're honest. I came within an ace of doing the same several years ago. In that case my probity was wasted since the woman concerned got divorced anyway about a month after I moved location. We just re-established correspondence, in fact! I really should find time to go travel out and see her....
maybe i just need to be a bit more cautious of the girls i meet
maybe get to know them a bit better (or at all) before getting in the sack with them