So from what I gather you can either focus on allowing your self to get hit, low defensive stats, and do damage or, you can focus on the defensive stats and go for a tank type build.
The defensive stats being Constitution, Perception, and Resolve.
What I did is I got 12 Might, 16 Constitution, 16 Dexterity, 12 Perception, 10 Int, and 12 Resolve.
Did I screw my character?