Is carth alive if Revan is Male DS?

Yes. All I saw of him was Disciple saying to Carth that " I found the Exile" and the hologram of Carth nods.

Why would he be dead if you wrere Male DS? He ran off and you never see him again.

 

On the other hand, you actually can kill him if you are a DS Female... so there's the plot hole.

Yeah I was disapointed when I didn't see anymore of Carth after the Desiple contacted him.

 

And he made Admiral in just five short years....loser! <_<