Yeah right. If it's inappropriate or even offensive, or even personal to some people, it seems to be generally OK. But if it's even slightly related to sexual minorities or women, or gender roles or anything like that, it's a reason for a huge outrage. Something's seriously wrong with people. Considering all the facts, I can't blame Obsidian but I am somewhat disappointed nonetheless.
PC Gamer has a pretty good article on the case. To put it short, it wasn't a big thing and in my opinion, not terribly inappropriate either. You're quite unlikely to find it even with several playthroughs, I think. I think it was pretty tasteless and out of place, but nothing to rage about.