I burned through d3 within a week or 2 and got stuck farming the final act of inferno and getting drops that weren't even max level.
My friends and I quit shortly after..
I never liked those games like diablo 3 that force you to stop moving to attack. Torchlight was the same. It really kills the flow for me.
WoW at least you can move and attack; you can circle-strafe to backstab which is fun.
Of course, WASD or analogue joystick movement is a must for these games, as click to move gets old when you are only controlling one character (click to move for multiple characters like RTS and TBS is fine).
Been playing the Firefall Beta which is fun (and of course you can move and shoot with your single character).
But speaking of TBS, I mostly play Civ V with my finacee as we like to take our time and play at our own pace, though we are thankful for the option of automated units as repeatedly giving individual units the same orders gets tiresome after a while, and slows down the gameplay.
Which ties into my next comparison of Final Fantasy 12, whereby you can 'program' your characters via the gambit system and you could switch between them and micro them, or you could let them do their own things (according to the program you wrote for each).
Hopefully Obsidians new Project Eternity will have enough options to keep all players satisfied. At the very least it should be much better than Torchlight
(that said, I do currently have Torchlight 2 pre-loaded in Steam, though Borderlands 2 is also preloaded in case TL2 is bad, and there is also the Firefall Beta and Dishonoured if they are both bad lol)