Slowtrain, I love wargames. Tactics, strategy, what if? history.
I don't like these ultra-violent FPS war shooters, I see them in a different genre completely. However, I'm of the Airfix generation, you know the WW2 model kits? I grew up with war comics, war movies, a lot of men in their late 40's onwards had actually been in the war. So I grew up with those stories too.
So for me a game like Company of Heroes is a lot of very powerful, nostalgic stuff from my childhood made real on the PC.