Have you considered that maybe RPGs aren't your genre?
I do like RPG games. Here are the RPG I have played and liked.
Spellforce 1 & 2
Star Wars: Knights of the old republic 1 & 2
Mass Effect 1,2 & 3
Dungeon Siege 2 & 3
Dragon Age 1,2 & 3
Zelda
Fable 1, 2, & 3
Titan Quest
And also Van Helsing 1 & 2