Same here. PS4, Normal difficulty. Travelled to Groundbreaker to do the quest, and found it in the botched list. I never encountered any issues with Parvati disappearing or not being acknowledged by other characters - Nyoka and Parvati had just finished a conversation about ammo spontaneously combusting when I discovered the mission was in Botched.
I picked option #1, but if you guys need to save the money to awesome-up Pillars 2, then option #2 is fine with me. It means I won't be able to play it on Day 1 - my Internet connection can't download more than one to two Gb per day - so it'd be good to rifle through the physical stuff while I'm waiting.