Sorry, sorry, back up a second. This is a role-playing game right? Based on the idea that your character can interact with a "realistic" and "mature" world however he likes? What if I want to create a dashing rogue who romances babes across the land? Or a valiant knight who believes in true love? Or a normal human being with emotions ranging beyond "let's kill stuff"?
Hell the backbone of fantasy is based on beating the monster and winning the girl. What's the point in saving the land if you're a bloody hermit? And if you have close friends then realistically some of those friends are going to start taking an interest because that's the way real life works! Unless you're playing a complete moron or a total arse-face.