To me, I don't care what "tools" an artist uses to "paint" with (violence, profanity, sexuality, etc). I only care what the message of the art is.
For instance, a game where violence and sex and drugs and even death are used in a message that celebrates life, I'll probably love it. But if another game uses dialogue and cooperation and group hugs in service to a message of nihilism or misanthropy, I'll hate it.
When you care more about the colors of paint being used rather than WHAT'S being painted, you're missing the point of art.