ok i hgave a mods installed a mod which alows my female character to get handmaiden in her party but only if i say a certain line of dialogue when she asks about the force in the telos academy, now silly being out in the snow with cold shivering fingers have just clicked on the wrong option and out of sher reflex saved the game before i closed it to reload.

 

is there any way for me to reset the convorsation through the console, or by modding the game?

The short answer, no.

 

Start a new game.

Or see if the games auto save is before the conversation-it seems to auto save either when you face the HK-50 droids or as you enter the academy.