A thread in the forum is not a good metric to know if people want or do not want romance.
The fact that Obsidian put romance in the sequel to Pillars of Eternity, when they were more prepared than in the first part, that's a good metric. If Outer Worlds is successful (and it is very likely that it will, seeing the amount of attention it has called) it is very likely that Obsidian will dare to put romance in his next game, not only in a sequel, but in his next game in general.
And it's totally logical, the point of a role-playing game is ... role-playing, and part of that is letting your character have romance.