hammertoes

i am a level 15/1 guardian/sith lord. i have a decent amount of influence with him and he is pretty far down the dark side. i've read that if you keep talking to him, eventually you'll stumble upon the right convo thread and it will just happen. however, i've explored every conversation and now the only option i get is "nevermind". did i do something wrong?

i am having a problem. i am playing a DS character, and i am trying to turn bao-dur and the handmaiden to the DS. i gain influence with them just fine, and i check their character page and see them shifting to the DS. then for no reason at all, they shift back to grey (neutral). this usually happens either when i go from one area to another or when i save the game. however, sometimes if i change them out of the party and then switch them back in, they will shift back to the DS. but only sometimes. what's the deal? is this a bug? or am i doing something wrong? i want to gain enough influence to make them jedi, but i don't want to waste my time if it's not working right.

i am having a problem. i am playing a DS character, and i am trying to turn bao-dur and the handmaiden to the DS. i gain influence with them just fine, and i check their character page and see them shifting to the DS. then for no reason at all, they shift back to grey (neutral). this usually happens either when i go from one area to another or when i save the game. however, sometimes if i change them out of the party and then switch them back in, they will shift back to the DS. but only sometimes. what's the deal? is this a bug? or am i doing something wrong? i want to gain enough influence to make them jedi, but i don't want to waste my time if it's not working right.