uh not exactly, and no Im not THAT upset:)
let me put it in a scenario for you
monitor 1: swkotor2
monitor 2: msn messenger
now, i can see msn on monitor 2 and play the game on monitor 1. however, if i attempt to interact with monitor 2 by clicking on msn, the game automatically gets minimized. what i want is for it to stay put (therefore I need to use the always on top feature of ati's hydravision. however, seems the obsidian developers dont allow menu access from the taskbar icon). so right now, i cant really enjoy the benefits of dual monitor ownership unless I can figure out how to set the game (by using hydravision and the taskbar menu or perhaps by configuring the game's config file) to always be on top.
hope that clears up what im looking for.