I finished the game and had no idea you can do this. And romances have always confused me (as in real life). I don't think I could get a romance working in any game I have ever played (except Baldur's Gate 2- and I used a guide to make sure I didn't say the wrong things- if only I could do that in real life...).

 

How do I convert my guys and girls to jedis? I had no idea you could do any of this stuff.

 

and gaining influence is a bitch and a half. one mintue I gain, the next I lose.

Somebody posted a fairly comprehensive influence guide over on the spoilers forum, so let me defer you to that.

 

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